What goes on in your Head?

This post is for men whose Mothers are either spending time with them or living with them. I have a question for you. When your Mum and your wife or girlfriend are in the middle of World War III what goes on in your mind? Who gets the final say?

I feel your dilemma at that point, both women love you in their own special way and neither will back down in their opinions. While you listen and watch, what do you think about? And when you eventually take a decision and put a 'wedge' to it, how do you arrive there without either of them thinking you're taking sides?

My cousin (he just got married)called me late last night to complain his Mum (my aunt) is at it again and he really doesn't know what to do. My aunt like my Mum are women who'll tell you their mind, any where and at any time. You know how a roller coaster goes on non stop until it gets to its final destination, sometimes they're like that. But my aunt seems to have met her match in his sophisticated wife and my cousin is at a cross road. In the heat of it he is calling his mother's name sake and reincarnate (if you believe that)to talk about it.

So, what exactly?